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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

by Stephen R. Covey

PUBLISHED: 19th November 2013
ISBN: 9781451639612
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PUBLISHED: 19th November 2013
ISBN: 9781451639612

Publisher Description

Millions of copies sold. New York Times Bestseller. Named the #1 Most Influential Business Book of the Twentieth Century. "Every so often a book comes along that not only alters the lives of readers but leaves an imprint on the culture itself. The 7 Habits is one of those books." --Daniel Pink, New York Times bestselling author of When and Drive One of the most inspiring and impactful books ever written, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People has captivated readers for 25 years. It has transformed the lives of presidents and CEOs, educators and parents--in short, millions of people of all ages and occupations across the world. This twenty-fifth anniversary edition of Stephen Covey's cherished classic commemorates his timeless wisdom, and encourages us to live a life of great and enduring purpose.

Author Biography

Recognized as one of Time magazine's 25 most influential Americans, Stephen R. Covey has dedicated his life to demonstrating how every person can truly control their destiny with profound, yet straightforward guidance. As an internationally respected leadership authority, family expert, teacher, organizational consultant, and author, his advice has given insight to millions. He has sold over 20 million books sold (in 38 languages), and "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" was named the #1 Most Influential Business Book of the Twentieth Century. His most recent major book, "The 8th Habit",

Table of Contents

Contents Part One: PARADIGMS AND PRINCIPLES Inside-Out The Seven Habits -- An Overview Part Two: PRIVATE VICTORY Habit 1 Be Proactive Principles of Personal Vision Habit 2 Begin with the End in Mind Principles of Personal Leadership Habit 3 Put First Things First Principles of Personal Management Part Three: PUBLIC VICTORY Paradigms of Interdependence Habit 4 Think Win/Win Principles of Interpersonal Leadership Habit 5 Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood Principles of Empathic Communication Habit 6 Synergize Principles of Creative Cooperation Part Four: RENEWAL Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal Inside-Out Again Appendix A: Possible Perceptions Flowing out of Various Centers Appendix B: A Quadrant II Day at the Office Problem/Opportunity Index Index

Review Quote

"With all the responsibilities and demands of time, travel, work, and families placed upon us in today's competitive world, it's a pig plus to have Stephen Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People to refer to."

Excerpt from Book

Chapter 1 Inside-Out There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living. David Starr Jordan In more than 25 years of working with people in business, university, and marriage and family settings, I have come in contact with many individuals who have achieved an incredible degree of outward success, but have found themselves struggling with an inner hunger, a deep need for personal congruency and effectiveness and for healthy, growing relationships with other people. I suspect some of the problems they have shared with me may be familiar to you. I''ve set and met my career goals and I''m having tremendous professional success. But it''s cost me my personal and family life. I don''t know my wife and children any more. I''m not even sure I know myself and what''s really important to me. I''ve had to ask myself -- is it worth it? I''ve started a new diet -- for the fifth time this year. I know I''m overweight, and I really want to change. I read all the new information, I set goals, I get myself all psyched up with a positive mental attitude and tell myself I can do it. But I don''t. After a few weeks, I fizzle. I just can''t seem to keep a promise I make to myself. I''ve taken course after course on effective management training. I expect a lot out of my employees and I work hard to be friendly toward them and to treat them right. But I don''t feel any loyalty from them. I think if I were home sick for a day, they''d spend most of their time gabbing at the water fountain. Why can''t I train them to be independent and responsible -- or find employees who can be? My teenage son is rebellious and on drugs. No matter what I try, he won''t listen to me. What can I do? There''s so much to do. And there''s never enough time. I feel pressured and hassled all day, every day, seven days a week. I''ve attended time management seminars and I''ve tried half a dozen different planning systems. They''ve helped some, but I still don''t feel I''m living the happy, productive, peaceful life I want to live. I want to teach my children the value of work. But to get them to do anything, I have to supervise every move...and put up with complaining every step of the way. It''s so much easier to do it myself. Why can''t children do their work cheerfully and without being reminded? I''m busy -- really busy. But sometimes I wonder if what I''m doing will make any difference in the long run. I''d really like to think there was meaning in my life, that somehow things were different because I was here. I see my friends or relatives achieve some degree of success or receive some recognition, and I smile and congratulate them enthusiastically. But inside, I''m eating my heart out. Why do I feel this way? I have a forceful personality. I know, in almost any interaction, I can control the outcome. Most of the time, I can even do it by influencing others to come up with the solution I want. I think through each situation and I really feel the ideas I come up with are usually the best for everyone. But I feel uneasy. I always wonder what other people really think of me and my ideas. My marriage has gone fiat. We don''t fight or anything; we just don''t love each other anymore. We''ve gone to counseling; we''ve tried a number of things, but we just can''t seem to rekindle the feeling we used to have. These are deep problems, painful problems -- problems that quick fix approaches can''t solve. A few years ago, my wife Sandra and I were struggling with this kind of concern. One of our sons was having a very difficult time in school. He was doing poorly academically; he didn''t even know how to follow the instructions on the tests, let alone do well on them. Socially he was immature, often embarrassing those closest to him. Athletically, he was small, skinny, and uncoordinated -- swinging his baseball bat, for example, almost before the ball was even pitched. Others would laugh at him. Sandra and I were consumed with a desire to help him. We felt that if "success" were important in any area of life, it was supremely important in our role as parents. So we worked on our attitudes and behavior toward him and we tried to work on his. We attempted to psych him up using positive mental attitude techniques. "Come on, son! You can do it! We know you can. Put your hands a little higher on the bat and keep your eye on the ball. Don''t swing till it gets close to you." And if he did a little better, we would go to great lengths to reinforce him. "That''s good, son, keep it up." When others laughed, we reprimanded them. "Leave him alone. Get off his back. He''s just learning." And our son would cry and insist that he''d never be any good and that he didn''t like baseball anyway. Nothing we did seemed to help, and we were really worried. We could see the effect this was having on his self-esteem. We tried to be encouraging and helpful and positive, but after repeated failure, we finally drew back and tried to look at the situation on a different level. At this time in my professional role I was involved in leadership development work with various clients throughout the country. In that capacity I was preparing bimonthly programs on the subject of communication and perception for IBM''s Executive Development Program participants. As I researched and prepared these presentations, I became particularly interested in how perceptions are formed, how they govern the way we see, and how the way we see governs how we behave. This led me to a study of expectancy theory and self-fulfilling prophecies or the "Pygmalion effect," and to a realization of how deeply imbedded our perceptions are. It taught me that we must look at the lens through which we see the world, as well as at the world we see, and that the lens itself shapes how we interpret the world. As Sandra and I talked about the concepts I was teaching at IBM and about our own situation, we began to realize that what we were doing to help our son was not in harmony with the way we really saw him. When we honestly examined our deepest feelings, we realized that our perception was that he was basically inadequate, somehow "behind." No matter how much we worked on our attitude and behavior, our efforts were ineffective because, despite our actions and our words, what we really communicated to him was, "You aren''t capable. You have to be protected." We began to realize that if we wanted to change the situation, we first had to change ourselves. And to change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions. The Personality and Character Ethics At the same time, in addition to my research on perception, I was also deeply immersed in an in-depth study of the success literature published in the United States since 1776. I was reading or scanning literally hundreds of books, articles, and essays in fields such as self-improvement, popular psychology, and self-help. At my fingertips was the sum and substance of what a free and democratic people considered to be the keys to successful living. As my study took me back through 200 years of writing about success, I noticed a startling pattern emerging in the content of the literature. Because of our own pain, and because of similar pain I had seen in the lives and relationships of many people I had worked with through the years, I began to feel more and more that much of the success literature of the past 50 years was superficial. It was filled with social image consciousness, techniques and quick fixes -- with social band-aids and aspirin that addressed acute problems and sometimes even appeared to solve them temporarily, but left the underlying chronic problems untouched to fester and resurface time and again. In stark contrast, almost all the literature in the first 150 years or so focused on what could be called the Character Ethic as the foundation of success -- things like integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, and the Golden Rule. Benjamin Franklin''s autobiography is representative of that literature. It is, basically, the story of one man''s effort to integrate certain principles and habits deep within his nature. The Character Ethic taught that there are basic principles of effective living, and that people can only experience true success and enduring happiness as they learn and integrate these principles into their basic character. But shortly after World War I the basic view of success shifted from the Character Ethic to what we might call the Personality Ethic. Success became more a function of personality, of public image, of attitudes and behaviors, skills and techniques, that lubricate the processes of human interaction. This Personality Ethic essentially took two paths: one was human and public relations techniques, and the other was positive mental attitude (PMA). Some of this philosophy was expressed in inspiring and sometimes valid maxims such as "Your attitude determines your altitude," "Smiling wins more friends than frowning," and "Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can achieve." Other parts of the personality approach were clearly manipulative, even deceptive, encouraging people to use techniques to get other people to like them, or to fake interest in the hobbies of others to get out of them what they wanted, or to use the "power look," or to intimidate their way through life. Some of this literature acknowledged character as an ingredient

Product Details

Author
Stephen R. Covey
Language
English
ISBN-10
1451639619
ISBN-13
9781451639612
Media
Book
Format
Paperback
Residence
Provo, UT, US
Publisher
Simon & Schuster
Short Title
7 HABITS OF HE PE-25TH ANNIV/E
Pages
391
Edition Description
Anniversary
Edition
25th
Illustrations
Yes
Year
2013
Publication Date
2013-11-19
Subtitle
Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
Audience
General/Trade