Abuses in the Religious Life and the Path to Healing

Fr. Dysmas de Lassus, superior general of the Carthusian Order, breaks his silence to denounce the unacceptable behavior of some religious superiors and founders of communities. Drawing from the monastic tradition and a robust theology of religious life, Fr. Dysmas offers insights to help identify the dangers of certain spiritual practices and governance methods within community life. His wisdom and experience provide guidance for fostering personal and community growth through respect for individuals, Catholic tradition, and a healthy spiritual life.

Speaking out for the first time, he condemns an era of mental abuse in the Church and the world. This guide exposes abuses within religious orders, including victim testimonies, and helps readers understand:

• How to discern between traditional communities and those exhibiting cult-like practices.
• The two primary challenges faced by those in positions of authority.
• Behaviors within a community that lead to harm and psychological destruction.
• The four stages and characteristics of “sect-like” behavior in dysfunctional religious communities.
• The five layers of knowledge for those entering a community, from both external and internal perspectives.
• The dangers of manipulative personalities and abuses of power.

Readers will also gain a proper understanding of obedience, exploring the three conditions for blind obedience as described by St. Francis de Sales. The book differentiates between life-giving silence and destructive silence. It also provides two criteria for healthy external communication and methods for balancing sacrifice with genuine humility. Ultimately, it illuminates the path to healing and the liberating power of truth.

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