Did I Ever Tell You?

Did I Ever Tell You? is compelling and heartbreaking, and reminded me how beautiful humans can be when life breaks them open. Gwen’s mother, during her own most difficult time, executes an act of miraculous love for her children that has a scope and power that will take your breath away * Ann Napolitano, New York Times bestselling author of Hello Beautiful and Dear Edward *
An extraordinary testament to the power of love over death, this book is healing, moving, and ultimately, instructive. The example of one mother’s incredible unconditional love for her daughter, and this daughter’s resilient search to live well in the face of devastating loss, will make readers cry, and also help them through their grief. Though I read this book quickly because I could not put it down, it will nurture me for a long time to come. What a beautiful gift from a mother to a daughter, and for a daughter to her readers. * Sarah Ruhl, Pulitzer Prize finalist and author of Smile *
I could not love this book more. Did I Ever Tell You? grabbed my heart from the very first pages and took me on a journey that has changed forever the way I think about the legacies we leave-on purpose and by accident-to those we love. In bracing, vivid, generous prose and with crystalline candor, Kingston shares a page-turning and wholly unexpected story about the extraordinary gifts her mother left her, including the most powerful one of all: the tools Kingston needed to carry on without her mom. * Will Schwalbe, New York Times bestselling author of The End of Your Life Book Club *
In this gorgeous memoir, Genevieve Kingston packages up the stories of her motherless coming-of-age with as much tenderness and care as her mom took in selecting and wrapping the gifts and letters she left behind for her * Elise Loehnen, New York Times bestselling author of On Our Best Behavior *
As the shape of her grief changes with age, Kingston teaches us something essential about how to collect, hold, and savor memories of loved ones over a lifetime * Kirkus *
In this heartfelt memoir, Kingston reflects on her mother’s death, in her late 40s, from breast cancer and the carefully catalogued notes and gifts she left for her children to open when she was gone. Kingston opens each on schedule, while reflecting that “the person I needed … was not the smiling, gentle mother wrapping birthday gifts” but “all of my mother, not only the softest pieces.” * New York Times *
Poignant * Irish Examiner *

Genevieve Kingston holds BAs in theatre and performance studies and linguistics from UC Berkeley, and an MFA in acting from Brown University/Trinity Repertory Theater. She is the author of four plays and three one-acts. In May 2021, her essay ‘She Put Her Unspent Love in a Cardboard Box’ appeared in the New York Times’s ‘Modern Love’ column. Did I Ever Tell You? is her first book. She lives with her partner in Brooklyn, New York.

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