When We Spoke to the Dead

“A delightful and lively exploration of our relationship with the dead. Grief may be, as Carter explains, a chronic illness with no known cure, but When We Spoke to the Dead is anything but glum. It’s a searching and penetrating book, one that, by tracing our history with the dead, reminds us what it means to live.” – Colin Dickey, author of Ghostland: An American History in Haunted Places
“Carter brings wit and warmth to her exploration of the threads that bind grief, power, and the voices we get to hear.” – Abbott Kahler, New York Times bestselling author of Eden Undone
“This is the spiritual history book I didn’t know I needed. It dives into the overlooked world of the folks who tried to talk to the dead, without trying to prove if it’s “real” or not. What struck me most? How race, gender, politics, and our longing for connection shaped this unseen part of American culture. It’s as if the book becomes a medium in itself, channeling the voices that history left behind.” – Ilona Pamplona, author of Human Design Made Easy
“In When We Spoke to the Dead, Ilise S. Carter blends memoir, cultural criticism, and skeptical inquiry into a soulful exploration of grief and the very human need for connection across realms. Witty and rigorously researched, the book reframes a forgotten American movement through a personal lens–offering insight not just into how we mourn, but why we still seek to speak to the dead.” – David Dominé, author of A Dark Room in Glitter Ball City

Ilise S. Carter is freelance writer and performer based in New York City. Her first book, The Red Menace: How Lipstick Changed the Face of American History from Prometheus Books has been called “one of the most fascinating fashion histories I’ve ever read” by Harper’s. As her award-winning stage persona, The Lady Aye, she has worked as sideshow performer with acts ranging from Rob Zombie to Cirque du Soleil and has appeared on Gossip Girl, Oddities, The President Show, Mysteries at the Museum, and Dickinson.

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